Stripper Hired to Dance at Funeral

[lawby]

i find this outrageously immoral and indecent, but i suppose if it was his dying wish then it must be respected. Im surprised these strippers are willing to frolic about in front of corpses...

[berserkerfury]

roflmao, so inappropriate.... some ppl nowadays really have no sense or they really hate that deceased guy a lot when he was alive -.-

[cerivious]

Well if it's their culture to get as many people to the funeral as possible, we aren't really in any place to criticize them for whatever means they use. And the son was honoring his father's wish after all, so I don't really see a big problem there.

Reminds me of a Big Bang Theory episode where Leonard's grandfather died and he was happy cos there was cake at the funeral, lol.

[khoi]

Alright well thats weird. Guess its just different traditions though...

[Mundane]

lol ... the whole death thing is a bit cliche ... from an azn standpoint people usually go into a wailing horror of grief and sorrow; azn people take death very seriously and funny enough for those who believe in buddism people reincarnate so hence forth a persons life doesn't really end here in death; just that you won't see them again in this life.

Caucasian people on the other hand usually make funerals out into a some what meloncheoly event; they reflect back upon all the GOOD times with that person and the stories that make you laugh and cry at the same time; it is honouring that person and what they meant to them as they share their stories with other people who have come pay respects.

Taking that into perspective, when someone dies at an old age, it is more for remembering that person and the fruitful life they have lived. Conversely if the individual died at young age it is truely a sad event as there is an azn saying that a parent should not outlive their children / should not send them along at a funeral. Hence why normally in azn society if a child dies young the parent isn't there to send them off because of the level of pain they have to endure is simply too much.

With that said, I find it funny that people don't really appreciate what they have; and the people they have in their lives (hence why we have things like mothers day and fathers day etc) to focus on 'caring' and remembering, because it so happens we put a lot of the 'wealth' in our lives on the shelf and take it for granted until we lose it.

If you want to really honour someone's life cherish the time you have with them now; not be in sorrow because you didn't when they have passed on.

We don't know what is beyond this mortal coil; death is a mystery, for all we know there may be an end in obilivion or a continuance in being that we don't know or even can comprehend.